Black Friday 

So the average shopper spent around $403 on Black Friday in 2015 – I’m assuming it’s a similar amount for last year.  

I spent $526 on this famed day and didn’t wait in any lines overnight, get trampled, or wind up with an outdated electronic 6 months later.

I wound up here instead:

I’m on an island in the middle of the Atlantic, Terceira, surrounded by some of the most amazing sights I’ve ever witnessed. I’ve met some fabulous people, learned a wee bit of Portuguese, repelled down a canyon, hiked a lava tube, fell off a bike, took selfies with cows, watched the sun rise and set, and made a humongous deposit of life points in my memory bank. 

Travel isn’t expensive, it isn’t prohibitive,  it’s a choice. 

This entire trip will cost me about $1200 when all is said and done – to me, it’s priceless. 

The new friends who are so close in such a short period of time they shoot right to framily status, the culture, and the week long view into another way of life will mold my future far beyond a new phone, gift, or outfit ever could. 

Go ahead, skip the latest and greatest and go old school….making photographs your priceless keepsakes and raising your lid, expanding your horizons, while living your life with passion and meaning. 

To save 1200 in 4 months is a mere 300/month. Cancel your cable and skip the trade in of your car/phone/whatever and you can find yourself here too….

Filled with awe, wonder, and love. 

What are you waiting for? Go make some memories. Expand your horizons. Lift your lid – live the life of your dreams. 

XO

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Wanderlust

I have a raging case. Incurable, thank God. It’s not the same thing as vacationing, that’s escaping your life…this is living it, fully, eyes and heart wide open. It’s not about cabana boys and room service, it’s about people and places, exploring and learning, zooming out to a wider lens in which to view the world and becoming a better human. 

I’m sitting in a plastic green chair on a platform overlooking the Pacific. The waves crash on the lava rocks and salt spray hits my face. The ocean is the craziest blue I’ve ever seen and the birds chirp in the background. There’s a high surf warning, so no swimming with the dolphins for me today, I’d become food as I try to make it past the break.

I flew in last night for a 5 day visit. 48 hours of travel for 72 hours of hawaii. This is not your travel guide edition, this is the community version. I’m staying with a friend who manages vacation homes here – I will change sheets, take trips to the dump, clean bathrooms and chat with the guests. In between I will absorb all of the vitamin d I can, wear the required bathing suit uniform, and eat amazing fresh fruits – all while answering emails and negotiating deals for my team in Virginia. Also on the agenda is learning how to play the drums, hang glide over the coastline and watch the lava flow be cooled by the ocean. 

My mind relaxes, the fresh air is intoxicating, and my productivity soars. 

This is a life by design. 

It didn’t happen overnight and was super scary the first time I ventured out alone. I’m so glad I took that fateful trip years ago. It’s altered the way I live my life, it’s introduced me to so many amazing people, cultures, foods, and lifestyles. It’s opened my mind, raised my lid, and allows me to believe that anything is possible.

With each trip another limiting belief is erased, another deposit in the memory bank is made, and I find more reasons to love. 

It’s about choices. I rarely go to the movies, I didn’t have cable for 5 years, I travel wherever there’s an opportunity – not necessarily where I want to go. Don’t get me wrong, I have a list of places that I’d love to see, I have found that it’s miniscule compared to what is out there. Travelzoo is my drug of choice,  their deal of the day determining my next trip 9 out of 10 times. 

Travel doesn’t have to be expensive, if you choose to take the leap. Start by dropping your change in a jar, once you have about 200 you are ready to start looking. You’d be amazed the places you can go for a few hundred dollars. Imagine if you cancelled cable? I bet that’s 3 trips a year right there. 

Think out of the box my friends. Explore. Learn. Live and love. XO 

Here’s some inspiration,  my current view: